Showing posts with label reflection. Show all posts
Showing posts with label reflection. Show all posts

Monday, November 26, 2012

Volunteerism in Singapore, or the Lack Thereof

Last week I had a great lunch with the Nike We Run SG organizers to discuss some of the feedback I provided and they also wanted to learn about how things work in Canada. They were really open to sharing what their experiences have been and what mine was like. They really took it all in stride and acknowledge that they have many challenges and also that this event was a bit of an anomaly compared to some of their other events. I followed that with a great dinner discussion with a friend about some very similar topics.

The most important point to me about my volunteer experience was how I felt the time I gave wasn't used to it's greatest potential. Frankly, most of my time was wasted through waiting around. Their major challenge is the lack of public transport for the volunteers to get to the site early in the morning as trains and buses mostly don't run until around 6 or 7am on the weekends. Hence, they have no choice but to ask the volunteers to arrive before the last train or bus the night before. Most of the volunteers are high school kids who rely on public transport and it's safe to say that many families do not own a car. I compared that to my experiences in Vancouver where we can start driving on our own when we're 16.5 (here it's 18) and that there's lots of street parking in most places. We also live in a culture where volunteerism is almost a part of growing up, and have awesome family members who are willing to drive some of us around! Then, in Sri Lanka buses run pretty much 24 hours per day, so no issue there! Another major concern was that they were afraid they would get more no shows for a shift that starts early morning rather than going overnight. As it seemed, (at least for my group), I saw probably about a 50% no show rate!

The best solution is that if people could share taxis or carpool and have parental support to volunteer (i.e. rides to a volunteer assignment), less people would have to check in so early. The challenge here is the culture in Singapore does not promote, encourage, or value volunteering. People who volunteer mostly do it for what they get in return, materialistically. The volunteer entitlements are just as important as the runners' entitlements. The question most people ask is, "what do I get in return for my time?" My warm and fuzzy answer for recruitment in Canada (and in Sri Lanka) of "the joy of knowing you just helped some people accomplish something they never thought they could do, or achieve a goal of being the best athlete they can be" won't cut it here. Mostly, the kids (and others) do it because they have to, and the parents aren't there to tell them why it's good to do donate your time (or give them reasons to keep doing it). So for people to fork out extra money to take a taxi or carpool? Unlikely because volunteering doesn't hold very much value in this society. Heck, I feel like that anyone who gives them a more meaningful reason for volunteering other than for the material goods, just isn't heard. Yes, they would nod, but deep within their hearts, I don't think it's in them.

I crossed out "more meaningful" because I recognized that is a very Western personal and cultural expectation. In my discussions last week, what is meaningful to people here is very different from what is meaningful to many people I know. Many of us find meaning in helping others, volunteering their time, fundraising for charity, and in general, engaging with other human beings. A lot of people here find meaning in having the latest in gadgets and the feeling of having the warm and fuzzy screens of the iPads, tablets, and phones in their hands. Not that they don't think volunteering isn't meaningful, just lower on the list. I make that assumption, because that's all I ever see on the buses, trains, restaurants, malls, and streets. Yup. Everywhere. That, and in those discussions, I came to the conclusion that people here, work to buy the latest gadget, that designer purse, or the swank pair of shoes. They don't work to be a better person, attain that leadership role, go on an adventure, a vacation, or some time off. Seems wrong to the majority of us raised in the Western world, right? But what if, this is your world and this is what you know? Should we impose upon them what they should learn about outside this little protected bubble?

For the younger generation, it's all about "me". What do I get out of it? It doesn't matter that my actions might help someone else, because what do I get out of it for putting that effort in? Back home, you are recognized for being a "good" person to volunteer your time, you maybe get a meal and a t-shirt, you feel good about contributing to an event/project/charity, and you get to put it on your resume. Here, you get a meal, t-shirt, and cash. That's all that is expected. So to change the volunteer experience and to grow volunteerism, a major shift in culture is necessary so that it holds a greater value. The culture would need to recognize that volunteering is an activity that builds character, experience, and life-skills, like sport.  And guess what, sport engagement outside of high school is pretty dismal.

So, a little more food for thought. When primary schools are using parents of potential students as volunteers as a way to increase the probability their kid will be accepted into the school? They'll say that it's to help the school pick the best citizens for their school. Is it a clever scheme to get the resources you need to run school programs, or is a detriment to promoting volunteerism?


Monday, October 29, 2012

The Little Things That Make Me Canadian

I had a great conversation with someone last night who spent 6 years in Canada going to school and was really able to identify with some of those Canadian quirks/stereotypes that we have. Couple this with a chat about the same topic with another friend the other night, I have to say there are some things I really miss right now!
  • People holding doors open in front of you. I can't count the number of times I expected someone to look behind and see me right there and hold the door for just a second longer. The worst ones are the ones that open the door just a bit, then slip in, essentially closing the door on you. 
  • Getting a thank you for holding doors open for others
  • Smiling at people in the hall/elevator/street and getting one in return. I mostly get strange looks back. Or, none at all. 
  • "Sorry!" 
  • The excitement of the first dusting of snow on the mountains 
  • Toques and scarves
  • The signs in the bathrooms telling people how to avoid Influenza (sorry, but the handwashing here I've observed is pitiful or non-existent. Gross, I know. The country looks mightly clean on the surface, but some personal habits need some work on!)
  • Fall apples
  • My bike and golf clubs
  • Awesome hugs 
I really couldn't have had a more Canadian convo last night - we talked about mountains, Montreal smoked meat, poutine, Banff, snow, politeness (we are almost too polite to a fault!), and Russell Peters. The last one came about because he's of Indian descent. Myself, being Chinese, was thinking about instances where you'll find the two races interact with each other (my context was Vancouver). We concluded it would be close to 'nil, maybe except at a Russell Peters show.

I've also observed people here are very risk-adverse. I thought I was, but they are even more so! It could be because from the time they grow up, rules define their world. You can't do this, you can't do that. You can do this, but this is the exact way you must do it. Even directions to the Ministry of Manpower (I hate that gender discriminating name!) on their website have photos documenting every turn you need to take to reach their office. Getting lost, is not an option - because they don't let you, and people don't want to. Then again, I guess you can consider it amazing customer service?

Anyhow, going for a wander at Pulau Ubin this Saturday. Stay tuned for more!

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Happy Canadian Thanksgiving!

Just a short one tonight. It's my 2nd Thanksgiving in a row away from home and it's put me in a very reminiscent mood. I cooked some chicken tonight after locating a can of cranberry sauce (which isn't too hard to find here, yay!) and a can pumpkin pie mix. As I admired my Thanksgiving creation, I couldn't help but think of the warmth of a family Thanksgiving dinner and all the smells associated with assortment of food our family has when we all get together.

I thought I had blogged about my last Thanksgiving and if I did, the post escapes me. I think I did something very similar - managed to locate a can of cranberry sauce in Colombo and cooked some chicken. :)  Here's to hoping that I can do the same for Christmas in Hong Kong this year (yes, I'm spending Christmas in Hong Kong!).

Tonight, I also sat at my computer browsing through the Facebook posts from a year ago. It's hard to believe that a year ago I had just returned to Colombo after a month abroad visiting India with a friend, wandering London, conquering Ireland, attending and working at the Isle of Man Commonwealth Youth Games, and learning at midterm in Cayman. Now I sit in Singapore, knowing that I have a plan that only goes as far as the beginning of January 2013.

Conquering Ireland! Not really, just being a dork in The Burren,  Ireland.


I'm a person who plans a lot - if you saw the spreadsheet that I had on my trip in 2007, and also last month for Hawaii, you might think I'm a little too detail-oriented. This past week in learning from two of the most amazing people I know, I really recognized that I could be a bit more spontaneous. I'm starting to think I've started this journey to do exactly that and for once in my life, not have every little step planned out. It's a little scary, but I'm going to enjoy the ride.

Speaking of this past week, I was humbled by how hard it is to facilitate rather than teach. I've been able to stand up in front of people and tell them what to do and present information, but I have never experienced what I did this week which was facilitating a participatory training session. It is incredible, that when you are specific with your instructions, the information and knowledge you can draw out of a group of people without telling them exactly what you are looking for can be so powerful. And, to be able to help them synthesize all their thoughts was such an incredible feeling. It was really hard though, and well outside my comfort zone. I'm looking forward to start exploring more about facilitation and getting opportunities to practice these techniques.

So maybe this post wasn't so short after all. =P Happy Turkey Day, Canada. I am thankful that I can do what I love and it's given me the opportunity to travel, live, and learn around the world. 

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Singapore!


If you don't know yet, I took another placement with Commonwealth Games Canada's Capacity Support Program - this time in Singapore for three months. I got here EARLY on Saturday and have had a packed schedule since!

I had a great weekend of exploring and just getting the little things I needed to make life comfy here - some food, toiletries, my own mug, etc. The apartment is soooo luxurious. TV, garbage chute right in the apartment, plus it's serviced. Crazy to me, but pretty standard here, it seems!  Met up with a friend from Vancouver who was here to watch the F1 race (I sadly could not get a ticket to the race, nor could I afford it). I took local transport which is really well marked. The bonus is that it's so clean and it's air-conditioned. Ate some local food which I know I will enjoy immensely while I am here.

My first day at the Singapore National Olympic Council (SNOC) was on Monday. They currently have a temporary office in the building of the Singapore Sports Council (SSC). I'm a short, sweaty 10 minute walk from the office. There are murals of national athletes all over the interior walls. I was so inspired when I walked in. The SSC has 150+ staff from marketing to sports medicine; all working together to manage sports in the country. The SNOC has 6 staff who so far have been super helpful and definitely keen to get started on Zeus. The staff go out for lunch everyday - generally at the local hawker centres close by where a lunch can be had for about 3 - 4 CAD and choices range from BBQ pork on rice to curry or laksa!

I was fortunate to have an invite extended to me to attend their London 2012 Athlete Appreciation Dinner last night. What an amazing event. In addition to the team being present, the Deputy Prime Minister who is also the President of the SNOC was the guest of honour, the super personable female Chef de Mission, and past Olympians including their first ever Olympic medallist from the 1960 Games in Rome. Probably better summed up here: http://www.straitstimes.com/breaking-news/singapore/story/olympians-feted-ceremony-medallists-get-cash-20120926.

Culturally, I'm a little nervous - only because it seems so familiar at times that I'm afraid I'm overlooking something. I get the humour, many of the traditions, the work ethic, and bits and pieces of the language (aside from English, Mandarin is commonly used). I already feel so much more at ease here than my entire last year which makes me a little cautious. I guess we'll just wait and see! One of the things I do hope to accomplish is that by the end of the three months, when someone asks me what I need in Mandarin, I'll be able to understand them even if I still have to respond on English.

So I hope to get one or two more posts up this week about Hawaii, but if I don't, it's because we're preparing for a week-long Zeus workshop that's happening next week AND it's Mid-Autumn festival this weekend. I'm really excited about both things, but will write about it afterwards!

Zai jian!

Monday, April 23, 2012

Chapter Closed

As I write this en-route to Toronto, leaving debrief and Ottawa behind, I'm in an especially reflective mood. I'm sad that this experience as a Capacity Support Officer is over. I am excited for what is to come and to see where my Capacity Support Program Team 3 colleagues will go. The group we were a year ago and the group that got together this weekend was completely different. We all learned that we are extremely capable in taking on anything that was thrown at us and making opportunities out of everything. We have all grown so much. So proud of everyone involved and so happy to have had all of you influence the change in me this past year.

So what did we all accomplish? I will list some of the legacies we have left behind in our host countries:

  • Weekly women's fitness classes where they did not exist before
  • Recreational basketball leagues across a host country
  • New social media strategies to increase engagement with Commonwealth Games Associations and National Olympic Committees
  • New national sport events/competitions ranging from triathlons to youth multi-sport games
  • Proposals for funding, facilities development, team development, and long-term athlete development
  • Educational programs promoting Olympism and Olympic Values, anti-doping, and fair play
  • Sport programs
  • Games team management processes
  • Staff and volunteers trained in games team management software (Zeus)
  • Newly developed or strengthened national sport councils and relationships between national sport bodies and CGAs/NOCs
And this is just the start ... 

I think I can safely say that a lot of us "found" parts of us that we didn't know existed. We definitely had our limits pushed and we all made the best of our situations. My biggest take away - learning how to communicate more effectively both with people in my host country and people back home. I've strengthened some important relationships and have become better at making new ones. 

Thank you Commonwealth Games Canada staff and volunteers for the amazing support you have offered to us to help us grow tremendously over the last year. That support also allowed us to achieve outcomes that I think none of us could have expected given the opportunities that we found and also were presented to us. 

Now I look forward to staying connected with this amazing group of change makers and connecting with others as well. Need a job done in community development, volunteer coordination, event planning, program management, fundraising, or strategizing, especially in the sport sector? I for sure will know someone, or a team, who can help you. ;) 

Friday, March 9, 2012

3 weeks

With roughly three weeks to go, I wonder where my last 10.5 months have gone. It's been, what I feel like the fastest year ever for me ... not just time wise, but for personal growth and professional development as well. I'm a bit anxious about leaving ... not having a job to go back to at this point, leaving some amazing people I have met, and reconnecting with "real life" back home. I'm sure I will have more to say about this once it happens!

So to help me grasp all the thoughts I have running through my head, I decided to make a list of things I will miss and will not miss ... and the things I'm looking forward to back home.

Things I will miss:
  • My fantastic SL friends who are some of the most welcoming and loving people I have ever met and have taught me to be more open to love and being loved 
  • Quiz nights
  • Seeing the direct impact I have with work and the relationships within work. 
  • The drive from youth to learn - they take nothing for granted
  • Weekend beach getaways, sunshine, and sunsets
  • The beautiful scenery of this country 
  • The generosity and hospitality of most Sri Lankans
  • Daily Skype chats with Seylankanda :) 
  • The compactness/density of the city. Just about everything is within walking distance. 

Things I will not miss:
  • The madness of Colombo
  • Garbage burning 
  • The constant assault on my senses from honking, smells, and vehicles whizzing by
  • Playing real life "Frogger" when crossing the street 
  • The smell of body odor (not on me) 
  • Sweating 24/7
  • Stray dogs
  • Significant gender inequality

Things I'm looking forward to back home: 
  • Moving forward in my career 
  • Fresh air 
  • Cleanliness
  • Pedestrian right of way 
  • Snow
  • Mountains
  • Reconnecting with friends and making new connections 
  • Decluttering my life 
  • The concept of personal space
I'll be spending the next few weeks finding "closure" on this experience and concentrating on opening new doors and keeping doors open in front of me. It's been a struggle to find a job back home and I hope that once I am home it will be a bit easier!

EDIT 13-03-2012: Have been finding it hard at work ... things that I thought would be easy to finish up have not been as I learn the deeper understanding of what I've been trying to teach and show the staff in the last year is not there. We can tell them what to do and how to do it, but as soon as they are left on their own to develop their own "how to", they're lost. I'm mostly referring to the development of plans. It is more than just a list of goals or tasks and needs to include processes on how to reach those goals or complete those tasks. I'm frustrated. I felt the month prior to this had been fantastic ... from successfully bulk uploading part of the team to the London Olympic eAccreditation system to the workshop on Zeus where Richard was here. It felt like we took some huge strides forward and now we've taken a giant leap backwards. Finding it hard to focus on the successes we have had. Finding it hard to just let it go and trust that they will eventually find their own way or that it's okay if they just don't get that far.


Thursday, November 3, 2011

South Asian Beach Games 2011 - Hambantota

Ok, I have to warn some people that my observations in this post are quite frank. I don't mention any names, but if you read this and you recognize yourself being criticized in here, I make no apologies. I would be happy to talk to you about how we could improve upon the work that was done and I'd be happy to hear any reasonable feedback you may have on my work. Please e-mail me or call me at the NOC if you need to reach me. I know change is not immediate and that I probably have ruffled a few feathers trying to set some change into motion. I know that people here can be stubborn and some think that of me as well. I can only hope that change for the better will eventually take place - even if it's not a conscious decision because of lessons learned.

I also felt the need to wait to post this until the decision was made on where the 2018 Commonwealth Games were being held as Hambantota was a bid city, so there was no chance that people could say I influenced a negative outcome on the bid process (although Canada has now been blamed). Congratulations to the Gold Coast!


An opportunity that came up unexpectedly was one that involved work with the South Asian Beach Games (SABG). When I had returned from CYG and midterm, I was disappointed to see the staff hard at work on SABG. Prior to leaving, I had checked, and double checked with them that they didn’t want to use Zeus for SABG Accreditation, which they didn’t need but as we addressed that they promised that they would not be involved with any SABG work as the Games Secretariat had it under control.


It wasn’t out of choice that they had to do work for SABG as the Games Secretariat eventually needed the help of the NOC. Seeing the disorganization and fresh out of my experience with coordinating results at the CYG using Zeus, I inquired about results management for SABG. The reaction was an "uhhhhhh..." so I offered that I would look into the possibility of managing Sri Lanka's results on Zeus. That quickly turned in to managing the results for all of SABG, but instead of Zeus it was done on Excel. (Long story short, there are non-Commonwealth countries that are a part of SABG whereas Zeus is currently geared towards Commonwealth countries ... soon to change!) 


The two weeks leading up to the games were intense. The office staff worked through the weekend and stayed as late as 1am at the office only having to take up to two hours to get home and then get back on transit by 7am to get back to the office the next day. By the time the games started I was seriously worried about their health as they were running on empty especially since they were not eating meals regularly. Perhaps they are used to it as Sri Lankans eat breakfast early, then lunch around 1pm, then dinner isn't until well after 8 or 9pm! For me it was really a struggle as most of you know I snack all day long. I eventually was attached to a bag of food, but not food that I am used to eating as the only fresh food I could really carry was bananas. So during this week of prep and then at the games, dinner often wasn't until 10:30pm when we were back at our accommodation and for me that is WAY off my schedule and goes against my rule of eating before I sleep. But, if I didn't, I would have been nutritionally starving my body and that's not good either! 


Ok, so back to the disorganisation... it comes from the Games Secretariat being a bit old fashioned wanting to plan everything from beginning to end without help. They didn't realise they were a bit out of touch, I think, with how games procedures have evolved and the intricacies with planning such an event. For example, accreditation applications and the accreditation forms were done on paper ... with carbon copy paper to make multiple copies. THEN, these forms had to be entered by hand into the online "accreditation system" which wasn't completed on time for the teams to do themselves so the NOC staff and a team of volunteers had to enter them all. I had put "accreditation system" in quotations because it hardly qualified as one. It was an online form with fields to fill in which then filled in the accreditation card template. No reports could be run and the system was extremely slow. There all sorts of glitches and it was poorly developed. These cards then had to be printed off one by one through the system and we only had an inkjet printer to do it. Then, because the alignment of how the cards were printed was poor, each one had to be cut out of a piece of 8x11 paper by hand and then glued together because the print out was single sided. Then, these were stuffed by hand into a plastic pouch. Oi! 


Then there was the volunteer management. There was no volunteer manual. Sure, the volunteers received a training session, but a lot of those volunteers could not make the training session. As a volunteer I would have been frustrated as I would have had such a vague idea of what my role was, what the rules were, and who my resources were that I would not have felt empowered. However, these amazing volunteers pulled it off by coming together as a team. I could see some of the committee members being really frustrated with all the questions they were getting from the volunteers as they tried to solve problems ... but that is a result of not having proper procedures and communication protocols in place. 


One of my biggest frustrations was having to deal with the demands of the media here. They just didn't understand that sometimes, they had to wait for the information as we were working with limited resources. Many wanted paper print outs which was just not possible with the tools we had. I had to insist that the best way for them to receive updates was via e-mail. Unfortunately a few of them failed to understand the pace at which we could work at and what we had to work with which brought out the ugly side in me. I am not proud of it. I'm not sorry for it. But instead, I am disappointed in myself for not keeping my cool. What was really frustrating to hear was that the members in the media centre were not helping each other out. I don't know if it's common - I do know that agencies compete against each other to be the best. But really? Results are public knowledge and I'm sure passing a score over to a fellow member of the media isn't going to hurt your career.

Well, how about some positives? The venues were fantastic. The crowd in Hambantota was through the roof (literally). The matches were free to watch, as were the nightly concerts and as a result, the venues would be filled to the rafters with spectators. It was so so SO awesome to see a sporting event bring the community together to enjoy sport. I could tell that some spectators weren't familiar with the rules of the sports, but were having a blast anyhow!

And then there were the athletes. For many of them, this was their first ever international competition. For others, they were veterans. What was great was to see the cooperation of the veteran nations in some of the sports teach the newbies in some of the sports. For example, it was the first international competition for at least two of the teams participating in Beach Handball and the progress these teams made through the few days of competition were remarkable. The learning and adaptation that was going on was the spirit of sport visible for all to see. Loved it!

Personally, this was a huge learning and personal development experience. As I've been learning how to manage my stress and my tolerance level for uncomfortable situations, the ones I encountered at SABG were more challenging than most I've ever had to deal with. It pushed me to new limits and it really made me again, thankful for the training that has been provided to the CSOs by CGC and CGF. I struggle day to day with the cultural norms here and they were magnified tenfold at the games. It's so cliche, but it's so true when they say "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger."

Monday, October 24, 2011

Grand Adventure Part 5 (Isle of Man)



We (Paddye and I) got to work right away on finishing up event entries and worked until it was time for opening ceremonies. It was a wee bit chilly but pretty cool to see all the young athletes parade into the opening. Some of them were so little (gymnasts)! It was a pretty impressive show; of course, youth driven. All the performers, dancers, and parkour artists were youth (except for the Vikings, that is ... whom we learned were actual members of a local Viking club).
The grand finale of the opening ceremonies. 


The following days were filled with results. We based ourselves at the NSC where badminton and swimming were taking place and the track was right next to it. We found a little corner in the cafe and called it home for about 12 hours each day ... to the point that a few volunteers came to see us each day to say hello and have a little chat!
Achini and Upuli - Sri Lanka Womens Doubles Team (white) in action against the Aussies;


The volunteers were remarkable. Everywhere we went they were so friendly and so helpful. If they didn't have an answer, they were certainly going to find it. If we looked alone, they'd sit with us to chat and tell us all about the Isle of Man. I love volunteers!



I wish I could say that I witnessed some pretty amazing sport performances, but truth was that we barely got any time away from our computers. I did manage to sneak away and see the final few points in the badminton match which Sri Lanka won the bronze medal in women's doubles. We got glimpses of the track as there were floor to ceiling windows in the cafe. It's amazing how disciplined, intense, and in shape these young athlete are! I most certainly was not at that point when I was 16 and maybe it was just that I didn't know what high performance sport really meant.

Everyday, having arrived with little rest, we got more and more exhausted. Our giggles and uncontrollable fits of laughter got more frequent as some of the littlest silly mistakes or forgetfulness became hilarious. There were times we laughed so hard I couldn't remember the last time I was in stitches like that! The long hours glued to our computers resulted in some pretty rewarding moments though. When we ran our first report to look for mistakes it was amazing how much data we had entered and how easily we could manipulate it in Zeus. Even cooler was that even as we were updating throughout the days of competition, someone at CGC was able to see our updates real-time while she was looking for Canadian results. Basically, any CGA using Zeus had access to these results as soon as we could enter them and run their own customized reports for their needs. Additionally, these results automatically updated to their databases of athletes so they don't have to do any data entry. The results are linked to the athletes forever so if an athlete competes these results stay with that name in Zeus. Cool, eh? Maybe not ... but I'm a bit of a geek.

And for your enjoyment, some photos! 

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Grand Adventure - Part 1 (India)

Oh boy, I'm gone for a month and there's a brand new Blogger template and Facebook has changed yet again.

I've been back in Colombo now for just over a day and it's been a bit of a rough go. Having been surrounded by familiarity and people from back home I love the last month, coming back has felt a bit isolating again. I'm sure in a few days I'll reconnect with the friends I haven't seen here the last month and all will be well again!

Well, a lot has happened in the last month so I will blog about it over a few posts.

On August 26th I departed for India, sick and tired. It seemed I had yet another virus. Despite being excited for the trip, I had no energy to be excited. Anyhow, I boarded a plane at night to Delhi via Mumbai. Mumbai airport is bare and stark (although modern). Not a place for a tired traveller to nap on the floor (darn!). Anyhow, I arrived in Delhi around 5:00am the next morning ready to find a taxi to the train station. After 45 minutes of searching the airport for the left luggage counter (it's above the metro entrance, by the way), I found the pre-paid booth, purchased my ticket, and off I went. Lucky for me, it was rather straightforward and hassle-free!

First order of business was to head to Agra to meet up with my very good friend Linda. She had been travelling for over three weeks by this point, been sick almost the whole time with what we thought was a parasite, and harassed endlessly by Indian men. When we finally saw each other, we gave each other a GIANT hug and then we gabbed for probably what was a couple hours over food and soda. We made plans for the next day and then to bed we went!



The not so honest man from the back.
He worked hard, but because of his
greed we felt unsatisfied. "You happy,
I happy. You pay if you happy." Then
at the end we weren't that happy ... so
after we handed over some cash, he
then asked "how about more?" We just
walked away. 
Next day before the break of dawn we headed to the Taj Mahal. We wanted to capture it at sunrise, but the sunrise was rather blah this particular morning. Oh well. The best part likely is that we beat the big crowds giving us the freedom to shoot photos with a minimal number of people in it. It's hard to believe that these grounds were built by hands without any modern tools. The precision with which the carvings were done and stones were laid is mind-boggling! The rest of the day we felt rather unmotivated to see anything else. It was still summer temperatures (i.e. pushing 40 degrees) and I was drenching my tops in sweat. We eventually hired a cycle trishaw who took us to a few places ... he had promises of being honest but in the end, greed reared it's ugly head and we were done with that. That evening, we boarded an overnight train to Varanasi.



The Ganges unfortunately was really high when we were there, so no river tours, and the Ghats were mostly covered. We did visit two Ghats, where at one of them I walked by some bodies that were wrapped up gorgeously and ready to be cremated. A bit creepy, but amazing at the same time. No photos though as they were sacred places. Walking around old Varanasi wasn't too bad aside from the cow dung and garbage almost everywhere. It was probably the place we were least harassed and the most interesting. There was so much in all the little shops! This place definitely had character.
The real Brown Bread Bakery in Varanasi. 
Nice gentleman number 1. I can't find
his business card so I don't remember
his name. 
India has some really cutthroat people, but there were a few people who were worth mentioning for the kindness of their hearts. First was the man who helped me hire a motor rickshaw at a fair price and helped me find my guesthouse in Agra. I wish we could have communicated more easily but thank you for being honest. Second, was the man who sold me my "bling" to go with my Salwar in Varanasi. You enjoyed what you do and you had so much patience with my indecisiveness. And to top it off, you threw in a free gift for my friend and I. Very unexpected for culture that has greed woven intricately with it's traditions (a generalization, I know). Third, for the kind gentleman who took us in at his shop for a chat and some chai when we were at our wits end trying to arrange some travel. In the end, I know it helps you do your business (How could I resist not buying a bunch of scarves!). But, I know you would have been perfectly fine with us not buying anything at all. Like the second man, you threw in a couple freebies for us. Also very unexpected. (For those of you who want to know, this guy has his shop in the same building as the Brown Bread Bakery - the real one - an amazing restaurant/bakery that trains locals in the restaurant and also funds a school, in addition to empowering local women).

Even though I was only there for 5 days, I was exhausted in the end. I was tired of being seen as $. I was tired of worrying about whether my next meal would make me sick or not. I was tired of the heat. I missed home. To top it off, when I got to Delhi airport 7 hours before my flight, they wouldn't let me go into the arrivals hall (where people are picked up) so I could go take a shower or check in early so that I could go past security to use the showers in the departures area. I couldn't wait to board the flight to London! I don't know if I would go back ... probably not to that region. Maybe the North or the South in the future, and definitely not in the summer.

And your reward to reading the whole post, a link to my favourite photos from India. 

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Ready to depart ... I think?

It's the day. I'm at YVR officially writing my first blog. It's been a whirlwind of a week after pre-departure training in Ottawa in the first week of April. I'm excited and nervous. Also, I never thought saying goodbye would be so hard ... even though it's only temporary.

A quick re-cap of pre-departure training:
Myself and 14 other like-minded young Canadians who love sport and want to use it to make positive change overseas went through 5 days of exciting and intense training. We learned more about the structure of Commonwealth and Olympic organizations, grant/funding opportunities, how to be cross-culturally effective people, and much more. It was such an interesting week especially with such an amazing group of individuals! Special thanks to Raymond, our facilitator for most of the week who wished us "all the pain and suffering in the world, but not in a bad way." We were definitely warned that this year will not be easy, but I felt it also really fired me up to take on any of the challenges I might face.

So what was all this training preparing us for? 15 of us going to 15 different Commonwealth countries and nations around the world including the Caribbean, South America, Africa, South Asia, and Pacific Islands. All of us are Capacity Support Officers (CSOs) placed by Commonwealth Games Canada (CGCs) to countries and nations that applied to have a Capacity Support Officer. All of us only have one part of the internship description in common: Zeus. Zeus is Commonwealth Games Federation's (CGF) games management system that stores and manages data for national teams. We will be learning with someone from our host organization what Zeus does then assist them in designing what they need it to do and implementing it. Then we teach other staff/volunteers/athletes/delegates to use it (or at least that might be the goal). So aside from that, my projects with the Sri Lanka National Olympic Committee (NOC) and Commonwealth Games Association (CGA) may include grant writing, fundraising, evaluation of National Sports Organizations (NSOs) and improving their use of social media. My workplan will be developed over the next month or so with my supervisor once I arrive.

So what else can I tell you? I have an apartment that is close to work ... and I'm deathly afraid of cockroaches. They make spiders pretty insignificant! I settle in for just over a week and then on April 27th I make another long trip to Wellington, New Zealand for a week where we'll go through intense Zeus training. Then it's back to Colombo, Sri Lanka until our midterm about 6 months from now in a place to be determined. Colombo is not easy to get to but if you are thinking about going on an adventure, please come visit!

So I have no idea where this will take me and I'm excited for this opportunity and any others that will arise. But I do know that the last two and a half years at Special Olympics BC had a large part in shaping me into the person that was able to successfully become a Capacity Support Officer with Commonwealth Games Canada. So, thank you to everyone that I got to meet and work with at SOBC. Thank you to my friends and family in the last little while in supporting me to go on this journey. You all mean the world to me and I'm so happy to know that I have a reliable network to lean on when I need it. And to my new network of friends with CGC, I'm looking forward to developing an even stronger bond with all of you!

Alright ... I think it's time for me to start moving to my departure gate. 13 hours to Hong Kong, then 7 hours to Colombo. Until next time I have internet!!!